年少时翻阅武侠小说,就读过某人因为犯错,被师父严惩,需面壁思过。
后来西方社会也不认同东方社会传统的鞭打的肢体教育方式,认为在教育孩童这方面,软性教育效果更好,不会给成长的孩童留下阴影。面壁思过便是其中一项被推举的方法之一。
不过,偶尔还是觉得藤条效应有时还是蛮有效的。
Spare the rod and spoil the child - that's what most of us were thought when we were young.
The preferred method of educating our young children is "tender-loving-care", through gentle coaching, to gain the young child's understanding.
Somehow, I feel that physical punishment may still be useful at times (provided it is not being done overboard).
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