抉择 Making choices

陌路人

该如何把彼此的距离拉近呢？

一个人在人生路途中需要做好几个抉择。比如该选那一间高等学府深造，在哪一家公司就业等等。

影响最深的，莫过于在择偶这一方面。

若选错对象，意见不合，轻则唇舌交战，重则剑拔弩张，拳脚相向，整个家都闹得鸡犬不宁，呜呼哀哉！

若所选的对象，彼此情投意合，双方都能互相体谅，支持与照顾，那是多美好呀！

Many a time we have to make tough choices in our life. What courses to take, which university to go to, which company should I join, should I work overseas etc etc...

The one that carries the most significant impact is probably the choice of our life partner. This carries significant long term impact, not only on ourselves, but also on others, It has strong bearing on our offsprings in the future.

However, we must remember that even having arrived at our best choice, there may be some unchartered territory that may creat unwanted headwinds in our future endeavours. When this happens, we have to face it steadfastly, and not been defeated by it.